If you are also feeling unhappy for some reasons - It's for you

Conversation with God 🔱

 

Life can be a challenging journey, full of ups and downs, successes and failures, joy and pain. But even in the midst of life's difficulties, we can find solace and guidance in our conversations with God.

In one such conversation, a person shares their struggles with comparison and competition, feeling like they are constantly falling short in the race of life. God offers wisdom and comfort, reminding the person of their inherent worth and unique purpose.

 

 

  Here are some conversations with God

 

Competition and comparison

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God:    Hello, my child. What brings you to me today?

Person:   I'm struggling with feelings of comparison and competition. It seems like everyone around me is doing better and achieving more, and I can't help but feel low.

God:   Comparison and competition can be difficult emotions to understand. But it's important to remember that each person has their own unique path and purpose. You cannot compare yourself to others because you are not meant to be anyone but yourself.

 Person:   So, how can I stop comparing myself to others?

God:  Focus on gratitude  with what you have. When you appreciate the blessings in your life, you shift your focus away from what you lack. Also, try to focus on your own goals and aspirations, rather than comparing them to others. You are capable of achieving great things in your own unique way.

 Person:  But what about competition? It seems like everyone is competing for the same opportunities .

God:  Remember that competition is not always a bad thing. It can be a  motivation for growth . But when competition becomes toxic and leads to envy , it can be harmful. Focus on healthy competition that challenges you to be your best self, rather than trying to outdo others.

Person:  Thank you for this lesson, God. I will try to focus on gratitude and healthy competition rather than comparison and envy.

God:  Remember, my child, that you are loved and valued just the way you are. Trust in yourself and have faith in your own unique journey.

 

 

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Pleasing Everyone

God:  Hello my child, what troubles you today?

Person:  I'm struggling with trying to please everyone around me. I don't want to disappoint anyone, but I'm losing sight of who I really am.

God:  It's important to remember that you were created as a unique individual with your own purpose and values. When you focus too much on pleasing others, you lose sight of your own identity 

 Person:  But I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or let them down.

God:  It's natural to want to help and support others, but not at the cost of your own well-being. Remember that you cannot control how others feel or think about you. The only thing you can control is your own actions and decisions.

Person:  But what if people don't like me for who I am?

God:  It's important to remember that not everyone will accept or appreciate you for who you are. That's okay. The people who truly care about you will love and accept you for who you are, flaws and all.

 Person:  It's hard to let go of the need for approval from others.

 God:  I understand, but it's important to prioritize your own needs and values. When you focus too much on pleasing others, you neglect your own happiness . Don't be afraid to be true to yourself, even if it means disappointing others. In the end, you will find greater peace and fulfillment in life.

 Person:  Thank you for this lesson, God. I will try to focus on being true to myself and not caring too much about what others think.

 God:  Remember, my child, that you are loved just the way you are. Trust in yourself and have faith in your journey.

 

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Being used by all

 

God:  Hello, my child. What is on your mind today?

Person:  I'm feeling frustrated and discouraged. I try to help people and make a positive difference in their lives, but it seems like they just use me and take advantage of my kindness.

 God:  It can be difficult to watch others take advantage of your good intentions. But remember, you are not responsible for the actions of others. You can only control your own actions and motivations.

 Person:  But it hurts to see people use me and then discard me when they no longer need me.

God:  It's important to remember that your worth and value are not based on how others treat you. You are valuable and loved simply because you exist. It's okay to set healthy boundaries and to say no when you feel like your kindness is being taken advantage of.

Person:  But how do I know when to say no?

God:  Listen to your intuition and trust your instincts. If something feels off or uncomfortable, it's okay to step back . It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to not let others take advantage of your generosity.

Person:  Thank you, God. I will try to be more aware of my boundaries and not let others use me.

God:  Remember, my child, that you are a valuable and worthy person, and you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise. Focus on being a positive influence in the world, but always prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

 

 

Through this conversation, the person learns that their value is not based on how they measure up to others, but on their own inherent worth as a child of God. They are reminded to trust in their own journey and have faith that they are exactly where they are meant to be.

 As we navigate the complexities of life, we can find comfort in knowing that God is always there to guide and support us. Through prayer and reflection, we can gain the wisdom and insight we need to face life's challenges with strength and grace.

 

So, if you're feeling lost or uncertain, take some time to have a conversation with God. Share your struggles, your fears, and your hopes, and trust that you will receive the guidance and support you need to live a fulfilling and joyful life.