🦋 All problems one solution🦋
Life is nothing but the present situation you are facing
now. The best way to live life is to live at present moment. If the present
situation is good, be happy and be calm. If the present situation is bad - face
the problem and be calm. But in the end you have to be calm.
The 1st teachings
Don't share your problems, family problems, the secret of
success, earnings, and dreams with everyone. When we have some difficult times
we tend to talk with others and find a solution. But we have to remember that
not every problem solution is near them and not everyone is so trustable that
we can share our pain.
Sometimes we tell them our weaknesses just to know how to
handle that pain. We ask like
Hey! Do you know I feel jealous of someone who did better
than me in academics. How could I handle those feelings I want to stop
jealousy. At that moment they will tell you that you concentrate on yourself
and believe in yourself like so much. But later we see in our life, they are
the person who hurt us by telling us our weakness of jealousy and our fault.
So is it good to share your weakness?
The best way to solve this go near your family members and
ask them ..Because they know you from born they will never mock you. Otherwise
don't believe anyone (not to a best friend ..not to friends...not to any
relatives ..not to anyone because you don't know when they become the enemy of
your life.)
The 2nd teachings of
life
Be yourself.....
We have listened to this word before also BE YOURSELF. What
does it mean?
What does mean we have to be ourselves in every moment? It
means that you have to make a consistent behavior in your life. What does it
mean again? It means no matter where you go no matter whom you meet no matter
whom you talk to or see never try to impress them or bring attention by
changing your behavior and character.
we do something like
To impress the teacher and get good marks...we try to
impress them. At first, we saw it was good and we are getting good marks and
everything by this but what we all lose, you know? Through this behavior, we
lose our self-confidence. We tend to depend on others for our happiness, our success, and our growth. We always need
the appreciation of others to grow. If someone tells us that we are bad ..Then
we felt sad because we measure our value with others' words.
An example
We like to paint or we like to do some co-curricular
activities but to get the attention of a class we stop doing the thing we like
and started to be in the race to become part of it. Is it good? Is it the real
self? We try to get success from others or to show them our power. But no one
in this world can get success to show others. The person who gets success is
only because they focus on their work not to impress or get attention. Don't
stop doing something you like for others and don't do something which you don't
like to impress others.
3rd teachings of life
Fear
We all have those feelings of fear from born to death. Every
moment in our life we fear death, fear of existence, fear for loss, fear for
sorrow, fear for pain. Fear is never a good teacher. The teachings of fear are
not interesting and not rememberable. But sometimes this fear is good for
growth when a child is born, he has to fear her parents so he learns so many things.
So what do I want to say? Fear is good
or bad?
Every feeling has a special meaning and value. At moments
our fear is good but more fear is bad. Don't fear to stand for truth and good.
How to know which is our fear?
one example
There is a girl who likes math most but she doesn't choose
math just because fearing what others say to her. There is a girl who knows the
education system is not good but after that also because of her fear she
doesn't take any steps but forcefully accepted to go on that teaching way. So
here fear is bad.
So only fear to your soul ,not to anyone else.
4th teachings of life
words
words can make you, can break you, can heal your soul. This
is the only thing that has the power to kill someone without hurting them
physically. So learn to control your words always. No matter how bad the
situation is, never tell a single word that can hurt someone. Before saying
something to anyone ask three lines to yourself i.e
Is it
good?
Is it
kind?
Is it
the truth?
if Ans is "yes" then go forward. Otherwise don't
say any harsh words to anyone.
To get respect you have to respect everyone. To get the love
you have to love everyone. To get anything you have to give it to everyone. So
control your words and thoughts.
Always analyze with your thought. Happiness lies within
yourself, within your activities.
5th teachings of life
Goals of life or aim of life
what is goal? What is aim? what is dream?
Is it a job, position or college or house or money or power
or to be famous?
What is the actual goal of life?
The goal of our life is to become peaceful and joyful.
Have you asked why people want to do suicide??
Because they want peace in life. Even they wanted to kill
their body to get peace so the human goal is to attain peace from the soul.
Sit silently in a place and ask to yourself
Are you getting peace from what you are doing?
Are you really in a state of calm?
Sometimes to get peace we start a journey but we run so fast
that we cross peace and reach jealousy, competition, dissatisfaction, etc. For
example, we earn money, but after we start earning we reach a different state.
6th teachings of life
Satisfaction is more important than success
Success is measured by others' eyes but satisfaction is
measured by ourselves.
If you are getting satisfaction from anything do that.
Don't stick to people or relationships. Stick to your work,
stick to your passion.
In our life, we all have felt a situation where we don't
know where to go, where to start and what to do.
We all have felt directionless, aimless, and purposeless. So
at that moment, we have to try to listen our soul and do anything that makes us
happy and do something good for society
after it hurt us also.
That person who doesn't do what she likes is STUPID
That person who does what she likes is INTELLIGeNT
But that person who makes every work lovable and does right
for society is a GENIUS.
So be happy, be yourself, and don't feel bad to accept your
fault.
Start from where you are.
Walk or run or at least creep with your capacity but don't
stop.
Reach where you want.
Don't try to get success...try to do every work in the best
way. It will give you success.
0 Comments